
Institute for Victorian Living
A most intriguing invitation awaits your attention…
Black Point Estate invites guests to step into the elegance and intrigue of the Victorian era through a trio of immersive evenings exploring the hidden language of flowers, the art of etiquette, and the splendor of historic weddings. Each event promises a captivating glimpse into the social rituals that once ruled high society.
Select Days in Summer & Fall

We cordially announce…
Victorian Living at Black Point Estate
Join three spectacular soirées and learn the customs of the Gilded Age
Dearest reader, we are pleased to announce Black Point Estate will host not one, not two—but three—engaging social events this season. From the whispered messages hidden in flower petals to the art of proper social parlance over a cup of tea, each evening will illuminate fascinating aspects of Victorian society.
Unlock the aromatic art of Victorian floriography, where blooms held hidden messages. Watch our hallowed manor transform into a garden of arrangements telling tales of scandal, love, betrayal and more.
Learn to avoid a misplaced teacup and refine your conversational skills through lessons in Victorian etiquette—but be careful, for a poorly-timed faux pas might make for delicious gossip
Diamonds may be forever, but a Victorian wedding’s influence on social standing proved far more valuable. Witness Gilded Age matrimonial customs through photographs, wedding attire and other artifacts.
In the Victorian era, one’s social calendar was not merely a list of events—it was a battlefield where reputations were won and lost over pointed conversation and floral arrangements.
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